What Women Truly Crave | 3 Deep Desires Every Woman Has

We identify and explore the three things women crave most in relationships: being wanted (not just needed), feeling heard, and experiencing true security. These fundamental desires form the foundation of what truly satisfies women in relationships beyond surface-level needs.

• Women want to be wanted and pursued, not just needed – there's a crucial difference
• Men who appear too needy or desperate often end up in the friend zone
• Self-sufficient men who actively choose their partners are typically more attractive
• Women need to feel truly heard and understood, not just listened to
• Communication breakdowns happen when partners don't feel their perspective is valued
• Security goes beyond finances to emotional safety and trustworthiness
• A woman needs to trust her partner with her emotions, vulnerabilities and future
• These three fundamental desires create the foundation for lasting relationships
• Cultural conditioning can make these areas challenging for men to develop

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Chapters

• 0:00 Introduction to Women's Core Desires
• 1:35 First Desire: Women Want to Be Wanted
• 8:15 The Difference Between Needing and Wanting
• 11:15 Second Desire: Women Need to Feel Heard
• 16:40 Third Desire: Security Beyond Finances
• 21:10 Relationships Built on These Foundations
• 25:00 Personal Assessment and Growth Areas
• 26:50 Final Thoughts and Closing

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

Yo, welcome back to let's Dig the Podcast. Today, we're going to be talking about the three things that women want the most. These are three things that they crave, unlike men. They ask for it. I'm telling you, ladies, you want to hear this, but, more importantly, guys, you want to hear this. Women listen through this too, because I think you need to send it to your man, send it to your husband, send it to your boyfriend. We're going to jump into it, though. It's three things that I believe, after a couple of hours of us talking about this, I've talked about this. We went through a lot of conversations, really processing what do women really want, because I feel like I do need a lot.

Speaker 1: 0:34

We do need a lot, but I want to talk about what I think that you guys actually really want. I think there's a difference.

Speaker 2: 0:40

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Speaker 1: 1:32

I'm going to jump right into it. The first one that I do believe that I think women really want is you guys want to be wanted, meaning you guys want to be pursued. You guys want to feel like you were chosen. Because I think us men like we always like to think of it as there's a bunch of options out there, because, think about it, there's more women than men in this world, that's true. So for us it's, there's a bunch of options in this.

Speaker 1: 1:55

That is true In this world, and I think, when you feel like I want you and some people might say, well, well, I think women want to be needed, yes, but I think I feel comfortable arguing that, because sometimes it can be borderline toxic, like, hey, I need you to take care of the house, I need you to take care of the car, I need you to do this, I need you to do that, but knowing that I don't need you for anything, but I choose you.

Speaker 2: 2:19

Yeah.

Speaker 1: 2:20

I want you Like. There's events that I've gone to before where I actually didn't need you there.

Speaker 2: 2:24

Right.

Speaker 1: 2:24

But I wanted you there.

Speaker 2: 2:25

That's true, because women, we do need to be needed.

Speaker 1: 2:29

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 2:29

A hundred percent. That's how we are in our motherly instincts, in our nurturing instincts.

Speaker 1: 2:36

Right.

Speaker 2: 2:36

Like we need to be needed Absolutely, but there is something different about when we are wanted. There is something different about when we are wanted, like I've said to you specifically, times of like I want to know that I get your attention when I walk into a room, like I want to know that you want me when you see me, or that I catch your eye, things like that. So, yeah, I do agree, like yes, of course, baseline we all want to be needed. But, more importantly, we want to be needed.

Speaker 1: 3:04

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 3:04

But, more importantly, we want to be wanted.

Speaker 1: 3:06

Yeah, I think there's just something unique about a woman knowing that there's a man that is actively like pursuing her, or or how about this one, a man that actively desires a woman that's always going after her, but not in a sense of like I need you, I need you. I need you Almost like you. I need you Almost like I need you to complete me. I didn't need you to complete me. There's always something, too. I think that women might even be attractive to men that are self-sufficient, men that are focused men that don't need anything.

Speaker 1: 3:37

Like there's something about that type of man versus the one that's like waiting by the phone, waiting for the text message, waiting by the phone, double texting, triple texting checking your seeing where you at.

Speaker 2: 3:46

Please don't try so hard.

Speaker 1: 3:47

It's right Please don't. It's almost not even attractive.

Speaker 2: 3:51

Not at all.

Speaker 1: 3:52

Because it's like yo, this guy is acting like he can't live without me and there's something about that I think, psychologically speaking and you could speak into it is that women don't find that attractive speaking and you could speak into it, is that women don't find that attractive?

Speaker 2: 4:06

No, no, there's nothing about a man that seems needy and like needs me.

Speaker 1: 4:10

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 4:10

Attractive. There's nothing about that, but like the fact that when we were talking, you're kind of like I don't know, I don't know how to describe it, but you're kind of like hey, and then kept moving and I was like, no, I want more of your attention like it's that, it's that like fight for it. Uh, with us girls, we like that, like we do really.

Speaker 1: 4:30

Yeah, I think we need to do another episode too on like, even for all the single people out there's like single guys out there. I think there's a lot of guys out there that they get in the friend zone of a girl that they actually like because it's like yo, you like this girl, so you, so you make yourself so available, you're always there, you change your opinions, you change your behavior, you start acting like a girlfriend to her, all that stuff, like man dude, I'm so in there. I'm like yeah, friend zone.

Speaker 2: 4:55

Friend zone. You're in the friend zone. If you're complimenting me on my shoes, you're in the friend zone.

Speaker 1: 5:00

Yeah, because that whole thing I heard, like another thought of like effort really equals value, meaning you put effort into something that you value, meaning if a woman is not putting in any effort to get you, you're not valuable to her.

Speaker 2: 5:16

Right.

Speaker 1: 5:17

Because it's like, bro, you're trying so hard that you're covering her trying. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2: 5:22

Like I don't have to try for either of us because you're so trying bro, pick yourself.

Speaker 1: 5:26

You ain't got a job, you ain't got no place to be, no.

Speaker 2: 5:28

I like the, the idea that you were busy and everywhere and you had things to go and place to be and I was like man, what is he doing right now?

Speaker 1: 5:36

like yeah, I wish he would text me but then after like all day, I text, you'd be like hey light up, like I would light up all the way, so excited. Even now, even after 15 years of marriage, like on my lunch break, I'll call you and you're like oh my gosh, she's calling me, it's so true, right yeah.

Speaker 1: 5:55

And I didn't need you to pay a bill, right, I didn't need you to check the calendar, I didn't need you to let the maintenance guy in calendar, I didn't need you to let the maintenance guy in. I just wanted to check on you and I think there's security in that, like when you're with a man that wants you. So I do think that women, I think, really want to be wanted. Well, I think y'all want and need to be wanted and needed. Y'all messy.

Speaker 2: 6:21

Listen, we need to be needed, but we want to be wanted.

Speaker 2: 6:23

That is that don't make no sense to me it sure does too, much it does, because even as women, there are times in our lives where you could like someone and it would be more in an unhealthy situation. Yeah, but like if you just wanted. Okay, for instance, I think of one instance would be like a trophy wife situation, like if it's a, if it's a woman who doesn't add much to the table, she doesn't work, she, he just wants her around. So there's this lack of her needing to be needed. He, he actually doesn't need her, he does want her, but in a less valuable way. That's why I said this instance would be more unhealthy of like, yeah, I'm going to take her because she looks good and just stand there and be pretty. That woman will feel discomfort, that woman will feel lack of purpose, like eventually she needs to be needed.

Speaker 2: 7:23

But then that case she's unhealthily wanted yeah, so flip it like it's, it's both, like both are important and then. But here I am in a relationship of a marriage of 15 years yeah and you do need me, but it means more after all this time that you actually want.

Speaker 1: 7:40

I want you because, at the end of the day, there's things that you could do for me that any women can do, right, like the things that we do. Like, okay, I need this done, I need this done, I need this done, I need this done. Like, I don't want a secretary, I don't want an assistant, right, anyone can provide those things. But the fact that you know that I want you, regardless of whether you can do this or provide a service or do some type of thing.

Speaker 1: 8:00

You, Regardless of whether you can do this or provide a service or do some type of thing, you're not a necessity to me and I think that's attractive to women, All right. Second thing that I think that women really want is I think honestly, I think women want to make sure that they feel heard.

Speaker 2: 8:15

Go ahead, keep talking about this one.

Speaker 1: 8:17

Hey, relax, all right, it's in the category of communication. No-transcript. To hear your heart. I think women crave that. I think women really want to make sure that they are heard. I think women value a deep emotional bond like where it comes to they feel heard, they feel understood, they feel understood and they feel supported. Even today we were talking about something and I went to cut you off and I had to say, um, I hear you.

Speaker 2: 9:15

And I said but do you? Because I'm not done talking, You're about to cut me off.

Speaker 1: 9:20

I was going to cut you off to tell you that I hear you.

Speaker 2: 9:24

You weren't, Guys. He was locked and loaded. He was ready to tell me how I needed to think about something or how I needed to process something. You were ready, but because we're literally having this conversation. He stopped himself and was like I hear you.

Speaker 1: 9:37

Yeah, but I was straight up getting ready to cut you off.

Speaker 2: 9:39

But it is being heard. I mean, we talked about it last week's episode. If you didn't check out last week's, go back to last week's. Last week we talked about what men need but most often will not ask for. But even in that, when we talked about one of the arguments that we had, that lasted a little bit longer than would have normally happened, and most of it was because, once it boiled down to it, was that you didn't hear me and honestly, I didn't hear you either. But the reason that there was so much conflict is because we were not hearing each other.

Speaker 2: 10:12

So it's one thing of, you know, just being able to vent to you, being able to like leave my concerns and just kind of like word vomit. Honestly, sometimes we just need to vomit our emotions and our words, but it is more important and more desirable to just know that you hear me, like you hear my heart.

Speaker 1: 10:34

I have this thought here when it comes to women wanting to be heard, women appreciate a partner who shows up consistently, follows through on promises and invests in the relationship. And so I realized that, you know, when it comes to promises, like you know, there's things that you want, there's things that you ask for, there's things that you desire in our, in our relationship, and if I hear you, if I say, yo, all right, one day we're going to do it, or I think we should do it. So supporting, being consistent to that, I think women do appreciate that type of partner being consistent to that. I think women do appreciate that type of partner being consistent with their words. And I think that actually even segues into the third thing. For sure, I think the third thing that the third thing that I think that women really want is security.

Speaker 1: 11:18

Okay, when it comes to being safe and feeling safe, women want to feel safe. Women want to feel like. I'm going to make it as plain as this, bruh if you can't go on road trips and your girl just can't drive, your girl can't fall asleep in a passenger seat because you will menace behind the wheels, right? That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1: 11:40

I mean it goes down to as simple as that. But I think it goes down to sticking with our word. Like is my yes always yes? Is my no always no? I have a problem with men and I'm going to say this to all the single guys out there that are listening If you're single and you have a hard time standing up to your girl or telling her no and having a value and believing in something like, she will not feel safe under you because it's like you say yes to everything.

Speaker 1: 12:07

So that basically means when you finally do say no, you finally say yes. It's hard for her to trust you or feel safe or security in your words, and so I do think that my words gives you a sense of security. Like when I say no, I don't want to do this or I don't believe in that or I don't feel strong about this thing. You know my no was no. That also lets you know that when I say yes, it means yes. It means yes and there's security in that. I think women really do want to feel safe. I'll say this thought too. Like, when it comes to security, it's security also has to do with trust.

Speaker 2: 12:41

Also.

Speaker 1: 12:42

Like do you trust me with your life?

Speaker 2: 12:46

I used to tell you that all the time we first got married.

Speaker 1: 12:49

Women want to feel security, they want to feel safe. They want to feel that they can trust you with their heart.

Speaker 2: 12:56

Yeah.

Speaker 1: 12:57

Women want to feel like they can trust a man with their emotions, with their lives. Feel like they can trust a man with their emotions, with their lives, even when they take their wig off, when it like when the weed be coming out and you be peeling off your, your eyelashes, can I trust that you're not gonna bust out and laughing? No, I'm gonna laugh, I'm not gonna bust out and laughing.

Speaker 2: 13:13

I'm like no, I cannot trust that you won't laugh what are those?

Speaker 1: 13:16

is my eyebrows? No, those were eyebrows. The mugs are gone, but it's trust. I had this thought right here. Emotional and relational security is huge. Women want to feel safe, both emotionally and physically, with a partner who is reliable, transparent and faithful. That leads to security in a relationship. Yeah, you know what I mean.

Speaker 2: 13:43

I think even to clarify too, like to go a step further, because you said security, but we never referenced that towards financial security.

Speaker 1: 13:53

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 13:54

Like when it's a real love and a real partnership. The main security that I'm looking for you is not financial.

Speaker 1: 14:03

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 14:03

The main security I'm looking for you is not financial. The main security I'm looking for you is emotionally, physically, spiritually, all those aspects of it, the and I said it earlier when we were talking about this I was like man. There were so many seasons where we didn't have enough, but because you were secure in your future and where you were going, because you were secure in your future and where you were going because you were secure in your skill set and what you had, I never worried about those things because I knew like those will figure themselves out. I have a man that I'm dating or engaged to or married to. At the, whatever season it was for us, I knew you were going to keep me secure like, and not just financially right.

Speaker 1: 14:43

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 14:44

So I think that's really important to just clarify the difference of like, because there are some women out there that are literally shopping for someone to keep them financially secure.

Speaker 2: 14:53

Some people make those choices like but I think majority of women, that's not what we're looking for. And for men, you guys fight that really hard because how God built you, you are built to provide for us, you're built to work for the family, and so when we say security, you guys think financially and we're actually like actually, yeah, that comes, but more importantly, emotionally, spiritually secure.

Speaker 1: 15:19

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Speaker 2: 15:27

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Speaker 1: 15:31

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Speaker 2: 15:50

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Speaker 2: 16:17

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Speaker 1: 16:19

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Speaker 2: 16:52

A lot of the other things that we could think of or name would all actually fall into those categories.

Speaker 1: 16:57

Yeah, for example, someone might say what about affection? Well, that falls under the first category. Women want to be wanted.

Speaker 1: 17:03

So, it's affection, it's physical affection yeah, right, it's. It's it's love, it's nurtured, it's cared for Right, it's cared for. Being heard is very important, right, that's communication. So when you guys are fighting about money, when you guys are fighting about the kids, when you guys are fighting about your future, you know if you're fighting this because there's just a breakdown in communication. Someone's not being hurt and women really want to feel hurt.

Speaker 1: 17:30

And the third one is women want to feel safe. They want to feel secure in their relationship and their man. Like emotionally, like in all areas, mentally, they want to feel like they can literally put their lives in this guy's hand. So if you're dating like I want to encourage you like really process and think about these thoughts. If you're married, really evaluate your relationship and think what are the foundations of my relationship? If money were to go out the window and there wasn't money there, like would there still be security in the relationship? Like for the fellas, if you're a man, are you still in a place where you feel like man, I can still provide, I will still pursue something, I will still find a job. Like baby, you don't have to worry. Like you know what I'm saying. That's kind of like my thoughts. I really think these are the three biggest things.

Speaker 2: 18:14

Yeah, right, huge. You remember when we first were dating and we are actually might've been engaged when we did the love languages there's five love languages and he used to make fun of me and call me a golden retriever and that I didn't need five, but I needed seven, right, just more than what would normally be needed. And I remember thinking like women are such complex individuals, we are complicated, we have, you know, hormonal changes every so many days. Please, nothing from you. Thank you so much. Ooh, he was quiet, guys. I was ready for him to say something.

Speaker 1: 18:52

No, I'm actually pretty hungry, so I'm just like I feel like I'm fading right now. I'm falling asleep. Are you falling asleep? Like my eyes are heavy, right?

Speaker 2: 18:59

now, bro. I know eyes are heavy right now, bro. It's been rainy in california, guys, so it's like perfect nap weather. I'm like I want to nap all day, but all that's the same.

Speaker 1: 19:06

I'm even yawning right now. Go ahead.

Speaker 2: 19:07

I'm sorry, I'm sorry, bro that yawn seemed so fake at the beginning. You're like, look, I'm yawning anyways. All I'm saying was we are complicated individuals and it is unfortunate that our hormones and our internal things change every so many days. It's just the way we were created. But I think for anyone who wants to go into a relationship, if you are a single man and you're thinking, okay, I want for my life in the next year or two, to find someone like, focusing on these three things will give you such a good foundation. It will automatically set you up for success. If you can make a woman feel wanted, if you can make her feel heard and you can make her feel safe, bruh, there's not a lot of other things that you need to do beyond that.

Speaker 2: 19:58

Now will there come conflict? Yes, will there be things arise where the certain individual of a woman says you know what? I need more of this one, absolutely. We still have things that are a year and a half ago. I sat down and said, hey, I feel really bad saying this. You're doing this one really well, but I still need this one. Like those will come, you can make those adjustments, but if you're someone who's wanting to get in a serious relationship, you walk into it focused with these three things.

Speaker 1: 20:30

I truly think it could set up a really good opportunity for a solid relationship. Yeah, let me ask you this Do you feel like you're getting these three things from me?

Speaker 2: 20:37

I'm like pausing because I don't want to answer so fast.

Speaker 1: 20:40

Right, Because you're like people are listening and people are like come on come on, come on, come on, come on, come on.

Speaker 2: 20:45

Absolutely Like I've always. You have always been a person to be a place that is secure.

Speaker 1: 20:53

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 20:53

Your word has always been your word. People ask us how we do it now, where you travel for you know music gigs and I stay home with the kids and we live around no family because we live in a place for ministry and I said that's what I signed up for when you were 17.

Speaker 1: 21:08

That was a real yawn there, I know I'm still yawning. That first one started it.

Speaker 2: 21:11

That was it, but that's what I signed up for, because your word is your word. When you were 18 years old, when I met you, you have always been one of those people that when you say something, it will come, even if it takes a long time, like it'll come. And you just have never been that way of like switching your words back and forth where I couldn't trust you.

Speaker 1: 21:33

So let me give myself I'm a grade myself.

Speaker 2: 21:35

Wait, I'm not done. Wait being heard, we're working on it. That, we're working on it. You have put conscious effort into hearing me recently, in the last few years. I do think we're still working on you, not like jumping and saying something before I finish.

Speaker 1: 21:54

Well, that's not what I'm working on. I think everyone in the world is working on that.

Speaker 2: 21:57

Okay, fair enough, that's not a pure thing. That's like we all you ask me how you are doing yeah I'm not answering how the world is doing. I'm answering how pierre is doing. I'm just saying like, I'm like back at you baby true, fair enough, okay, so you're working on hearing me and then I have felt a huge difference in the last few years from you of feeling wanted by you and not just needed by you. Yeah, yes.

Speaker 1: 22:24

Yeah, that's I was going to grade myself. I think I've done really well in category three of making you feel safe and secure in our relationship and in our life. We've moved around quite a bit.

Speaker 2: 22:38

Yeah.

Speaker 1: 22:38

Quite a bit in the last 15 years and there was never a time where you felt like we were unstable or that we were lost or shipwrecked?

Speaker 2: 22:45

No, not at all. You know what I mean.

Speaker 1: 22:46

Even if we had to live in someone's basement for a month, or you know what I mean was had to moving back with parents earlier in our marriage.

Speaker 2: 22:53

So true, like we always knew what God said. We always knew where we were headed.

Speaker 1: 23:03

Second, what God said we always knew where we were headed, yeah. Second category herd yeah, I do. I do believe that that's a category that I've gotten much better in of like, and you know why? It's because I realized your value and that you actually do have something to say and that you have a different perspective to life and to parenting, and to finance and to health and in relationships. And it wasn't until I was able to value what you had to say. It wasn't until I was able to value what you had to say. That's when I decided to realize like, oh, she actually needs to be heard. I want to hear what you're thinking.

Speaker 2: 23:36

What do you think it was that made that switch?

Speaker 1: 23:39

Man. I'll be honest with you, man, it's. It was my culture, upbringing. It was the house that I was raised in. You know, it was just that that type of culture, like women weren't really heard. And then you mix that in with what the Bible says about women speaking plus the culture, and so you mix all that in and biblical culture speaking. It just became like women didn't have voices and you grow up just seeing that, like my dad didn't really listen to my mom, she wasn't really heard, so she just stayed silent all the time. It's almost like she knew it, so she never had to nag or she just knew it. You know what I'm saying. And so you get that in your formative years you just start thinking like, yeah, woman, you know what I mean, straight up. I'm just being honest with you.

Speaker 1: 24:22

Right, it wasn't until I valued. Like man, you have something to say. God put you on this earth for a reason. He gave, god gave you your perspective, your eyes and your filters for a reason. And until I see value in that, I will never respect what you have to say. And that's what shifted for me. And then, yes, category number one, I would say that's the one area that I'm always going to be challenged in, because, as a man, that is self-sufficient, which is what's attracted like. That's like well, yeah, to you, you're attracted to that. It's that thing of just like not needing a woman. I think one of the most solid men like, like, like, or something that makes a man very solid is that he doesn't need a woman to complete him.

Speaker 1: 25:07

Like you know what I'm saying. But like for me, I want you because there's a lot of things that you bring out of me. But I'm saying is like that's always gonna be the challenge, because like I'm good all by myself, right, like I'm literally all good by myself, like you're not saying as good but I'm not as good. But here's the crazy thing is, I'll still be good though bro gosh but I'm saying all that to say, lord mercy I want you in my life.

Speaker 1: 25:37

I desire you, my eyes are on you, my thoughts are on you. I want you in my life, I desire you, my eyes are on you, my thoughts are on you, I want you there, and I have to make sure that it's not like I need you, I need you, I need you. The only relationship that I need in my life is my life with God. That's the one that I need. But I want to have a relationship with my wife, a relationship with my son, with my friends, with with my son, with my friends, with my leaders, with my coworkers, with my peers, the people that I'm walking with. I want, I desire those relationships and, yes, ultimately we need them.

Speaker 2: 26:05

Yes.

Speaker 1: 26:05

We need them so that we can live properly. We do need them More so, but there's just something different about desiring it and wanting it Like.

Speaker 2: 26:13

You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1: 26:13

So I think we graded me about the same.

Speaker 2: 26:21

I think so, tim. Well, we hope y'all have enjoyed this conversation. It's been really fun talking about these relationships in this aspect and in this viewpoint of what do men need, what do women want, and, um, I think it's been really fun to talk about these, so I hope y'all have enjoyed them. If you didn't check out the last episode, make sure you click back and go check it out. Is so good I think that you'll be surprised of the ones that men need but they won't ask for. So, uh, like comment, subscribe. Send this video to someone. Women, if you need a little, a little nudge for your man, you know what? We give you permission, it's okay. Send this to them, um, and then they won't get mad at you. They can get mad at us, it's fine, that's okay. Actually, hopefully, most of the men agree with it. So we love y'all. Thank you for joining us and we will see you next time. Peace.